| Making Real Love Happen : The New ERA of Intimacy (Hardcover)
No need to guess any longer. Buckner reveals exactly what you need to do when a misunderstanding or argument is brewing. Better still, you will be able to create loving moments most anytime you want. Dating or married, newlywed or silver anniversary, the rules are the same. And Making Real Love Happen translates the “rules” into specific behaviors, shows why the behaviors are vital, and teaches you the gentle and proven ERA Process, which when exercised, transforms your relationship into real and lasting love.There is a formula for Making Real Love Happen. Years of research have documented that the major component of the formula is a set of relationship skills. Dr. Buckner conducted one of the first research studies that showed that these skills – empathy, respect, and authenticity (ERA) – can be taught and they can be learned. A major focus of her professional life has been developing a procedure couples and individuals can use to insure that they communicate with ERA.
At long last, the procedure called The ERA Process is being launched. You will learn to speak from your heart in a way that your partner can hear. You will learn to hear your partner so they will speak their heart. This is the royal road to intimacy. Together, as you communicate in this powerful manner, you will come to know yourself and your partner more deeply than ever before and you will make real love happen.
Author: Joyce P. Buckner
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| Editorial Reviews
“My marriage was saved by practicing the processes revealed in Making Real Love Happen. If you want to revitalize your relationship and achieve real happiness in your marriage, you’ve found the book to be successful.”
“Who should read this book? Intelligent, responsible adults who are interested in growing their own inner ‘child’ wherever s/he shows up and in ending the repressive forces that pass down from generation to generation. A splendid book!”
“This is an important book. Dr. Buckner’s processes create connection between partners. By learning and putting her ideas into practice, you can create life-long love.”
“Dr. Buckner has distilled the complex concepts of relationship theory into a brilliant model and an understandable and beautiful book. Easy to read, a great joy to share, full of wisdom.”
“The most profound and effective relationship book on the market today. It provides tools that produce life-changing results.”
“The tightest, most succinct book I’ve ever read. Every other sentence is profound—it’s truth after truth after truth.”
“Dr. Buckner is one of the finest minds in the field of human relations today. She artfully takes the very complex interactions in relationships and reveals them…with ease and compassion.”
“The mesmerizing storybook effect draws you into a world of understanding intimate relationship as never before. Written in both lyrical and scientific style Making Real Love Happen provides a clear path to transform your relationship into lasting love.”
–Sunny Shulkin, Co-author of “How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship”